How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 17.06.2025 16:09
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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Does eating bread before bed make you fat? If so, why?
Ask yourself:
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Which feels physically better for guys: vaginal sex or anal sex?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
What do you typically do while on meth?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Why do we exist, and why are we conscious?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
That's it for today.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
What are some examples of unofficial acts by presidents?
Hangs out with loser friends.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Procrastinates a lot.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
When does a man tell a woman he has feelings for her?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Which country do you recommend for me to live in, England, the USA, Italy, Spanish, or Austria?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Who is the beast of Revelation 13?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Making more friends is a goal.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
What I need from you?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Does not procrastinate.